How to wear thick, wavy hair long for men?

I've been trying to grow my hair for about 8 months now and I'm wondering how I can make it not look so thick and poofy, everytime I try to brush it it looks girly. How should I style it? How to wear thick, wavy hair long for men?
why do guys love having long hair.


cut itHow to wear thick, wavy hair long for men?
i have been growing mine for about 14months, i have thick wavy/curly hair. i have it parted on one side of my head, not down the middle. its kinda like the joker but with a straight hairline more fringe..





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but i dont let the hair hang over my eye.





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id wear it like the dude from fall out boy. or id striaghten it to look like george litings from tokio hotel. hes mad sexy. good luck!
Cut it. Damn hippies.